With every end there is a new beginning. I am sure you have heard that in a song before but, for the most part it is true. New beginnings happen all the time. They occur when something in your world changes maybe an end of a marriage, end of a job, a death, or something else that causes a life shift. Beginnings mean change from the routine and that is hard. Change sometimes causes a vestural reaction because it is the unknown and it is scary. But beginnings mean you can change in any direction you want. It is a blank slate to create what you want to manifest. Instead of looking at beginnings as a scary new world you need to embrace it and the possibilities. Even in the moment of the loss, if you focus on the possibilities, the loss will dissipate, and the hurt of the loss will subside quicker. Before you can embrace the new beginnings, you need to let go of the loss, focus on the possibilities, and to free your new beginning of setting parameters. Once you can embrace these skills the new beginning will be a more created path to your happiness. If you are able to not be so affect by change and look at what wonderous things are possible, the beginnings will just be a detour in your world and not a roadblock.
Before we can move to our new wonderful world we must first let go of the loss. It happened and you cannot stop what has taken place. The only thing you can control is the moment you are in. You can impact the losses hold on you. Staying in the hurt of the loss will only waste time to your new future. The loss can be a chain that holds you back. I know it is hard, it is a loss, it was not planned, and it hurts. It is ok to grieve the loss. Grieve in your own way and say goodbye. As you say goodbye, say thank you for what you have learned, forgive yourself, and start turning your focus to what you can impact in this moment. Be in a peaceful place, let go of the anger, the pain and the hurt. They do not serve you know. Take this time to do some kind of ritual to end these losses hold on you. Maybe writing it down and burning the paper. Get rid of the chain of the past. Remember it is in the past and the wake will fade away when you move your life forward, just like a boat in the water. Like a boat you will move forward with momentum of your will. If you do not put momentum into your ship you will float back down the river of the loss. Once you have done your ritual to let go, now you are ready with no chains to hold you back. You can create your own momentum to create whatever you want to go.
What if you change the fear of the change to excitement of the possibility? You will be able to write your own new exciting chapter in your life. You have a brand-new path. Nothing has to be done the same way you did it before. There is no one (but yourself) telling you it has to be a certain way. Step into a new direction and try, you are not bound by the change unless you want to. The old way did not work so why not change the direction. If you have ended a divorce, you have the chance to find your perfect imperfect person by going to networking groups of things that interest you. If you lost a job and looking for a new job, why not try something that drives your passion in life. The loss is the door opening to your possibilities, not for you to feel sorry for yourself. Feeling sorry for yourself is holding you in the hurt. Where do you want to go and what are your passions in life? If you don’t know you will because you know what your passion was not. The universe said it is time to change. Look at it as the loss was to show you the way to your purpose. The change toward your passions will drive you forward to your purpose. Now that your book is blank to write, write what inspires you. Write your new chapter with an open mind and no parameters. The path forward will be endless with possibilities.
Sometimes we set parameters on our new beginnings. It has to be on this path, and it has to happen in this time frame. When we do that, we are setting ourselves up to follow the same failed path again. Free your new world from lanes to stay in. Because as you know life has detours and bumps on the road. Do not have attachment to certain ways things will happen. If you encounter a detour be open for the redirection. The redirection is the universe guiding you to your perfect place. A detour is a new beginning and telling you, you were going in the wrong direction. The bumps in the road are just the testing to see if you are ready for your purpose. If we set up our new beginning with parameters such as, my perfect imperfect person cannot be this person or that person you will miss out on the possibilities when you meet the one. Being to ridged on your desires will narrow focus on what your possibilities are. A broader look maybe the path you are supposed to be on to open your world more. That doesn’t mean that you have to tolerate things that are not good for you and who you are. What it means is to open your mind to possibilities and see where it takes you. You may end up in a place you never expected, and it is wonderful. If it sends you on a detour you have a great new beginning again with more endless possibilities.
Embrace your new beginnings with excitement and know this is your time to choose a better path. You can create anything in this moment. Let go of the chains that bind you to the past hurt. Do what you need to do to free your moment for the change. Free your moment to have endless possibilities with letting go of the parameters of the possibilities. The exciting new path lies in the freedom you have to write your own story with this new beginning. Live you new life open, free and excited for the new life you can create.